Will you accept this rose?

Now this is different...
I got a really random phone call today from an ABC, The Bachelor rep. It really caught me off guard, so it wasn't much of a conversation, but Sunny asked me to send in a video and send in about 20 pictures of myself to become a finalist of all the canidates on the show. Apparently, I was nominated and had no idea. This is pretty opposite of my last post I guess, haha. I am interested and would love to make a video to send in, but for some reason I never seem to like the guys on the Bachelor. Who knows if I will make the final cut anyway. I mean who wants a recent college grad struggling to find a job anyway...
I don't know, it would be a great experience though. I guess it can't hurt, or could it? Nice vacation, maybe some new friends? They've picked a bachelor from the Bachelorette season with Ali that premieres in a week or two. I'm assuming it's one of the guys from the last 5 on the show, if not the guy who doesn't win. Ya never know if there will be any other scandals along the way that may effect the choice (just like ali's gig for the bachelorette). I will watch The Bachelorette and if I like any of the guys I will go for it...if not, well I may be wasting mine and everyone else's time. Any suggestions?

the prettiest thing she ever did see

I don't have much time to write. BUT, I've got a cute picture. I've been eye balling these shoes for awhile! I feel like they would go perfect with any casual summer outfit or dress! These would definitely be my new go to shoes...yall think they're worth the $80 at Nordstrom??

you can't fake genuine... or can you?

Okay because I am in a bittersweet kind of mood I just want to kind of ramble on about this for a minute. Maybe it will lesson the weight of it on my mind...

I sort of, kind of mentioned I'm single. It was more like bluntly talking about how my ex and I were over and done with for good and it was just ultimately best for the long run. Um yeah Well that lasted a good 6 months. The longest we ever went. But, come to find out he loves me just as much as he did way back when. sounds sweet, but no it is probably the worse news for me to hear, geez when will it end...

We ran into each other at the park (he knew I walked there on Mondays). Okay so he came to see me I guess. Let me back up a minute, I already sound confusing and this situation is just confusing in itself. Prior to running into each other... we had to go as far as blocking our numbers because we just couldn't or wouldn't stop talking a good year after we broke up. I just needed some closure and I thought it would help. It did for me, a lot, I thought I would be content and I thought I had enough courage to move on and wish him well. Well the first time we saw each other after 6 months was at the softball field and it was very brief, but it led to us unblocking our numbers. I had already done it about a month before because I was tired of paying on it and I figured he wouldn't even realize it was unblocked, but then that night he unblocked mine and texted me and we havent stopped texting since. Then he caught on to my schedule. The walk in the park mondays schedule. He came there and walked with me about 4 weeks ago and its been a weekly thing. WTH good thing I could care less. Oh well, will finish venting later...

Getting to know you Sunday

Okay I guess it's hard to get more followers when I don't update regularly. I wish I could. I just shouldn't have started this blog in my last semester of college. I should have known I wouldn't have any time! Here is a getting to know me survey!

1. If you could star in any movie genre..what would it be..romance..horror..comedy..suspense or action?
Romantic Comedy, eh duh. It's just my viewing pleasure.

2. Do you recycle?
Only at work, I would...but we don't have a recycling service in our cul-de-sac!

3. Have you ever been to a strip club?
No, almost in Vegas, but didn't make it. It's on the bucket list, just for experience anyway.

4. Do you have a nickname?
Whit, whitty, ittybittywhitty (obvi), fifs, fife, fifer, lil bit, shorty. I am called all of those basically on a daily basis!

5. What's a name you can't stand to be called?
brat.


6. What are your Summer staples?
my sunglasses, rainbows, sun dress


7. What was the last thing you bought for yourself?
food...go figure

8. Are you happy with your boob size?
I'm content, I'd definitely go up a size if it was more afforable and breast fed proof!

Anyways, there's that. See ya lata. I promise I am going to try and keep up this go round. Here's to starting another busy week...

little lives deserve a chance too

Yesterday I attended a memorial service for a 12 year old who lost her battle to melanoma. I am thankful my mom had hers removed and has been in the clear thus far...Today is my sister's 19th birthday. I am thankful for her too.
I saw this on a website and it just made my heart smile and wanted to share it with someone else.

One day after a big rain fall I saw a little girl in her driveway.

She was throwing worms into the grass.

I asked her what she was doing. She said that she was saving their lives because every creature, no matter how icky, deserves a chance at life.

Her love for little lives GMH.

V-day or D-day whichever you prefer...

Happy Valentine's Day! I really hate to complain about it like every other person who is single, but it's never been my favorite holiday. Not even when I had a boyfriend. He was always good with cards and gifts and surprises, so it wasn't that they were always bad, but my V-days weren't always great either. But, just another "American" holiday used to spend and make money off of. I'd hardly say I'm not a true American for not being a fan of today...I've seen more complaints and hate messages on facebook/twitter than any promoting this holiday for love. I don't care so much that I'm single, but for most people out there it's just another reason to feel sorry for themselves being "alone." That doesn't seem right either. And, if you are in a relationship, you should be doing the same things on this day than you would any other day of the week. That's a real relationship. A real, healthy one atleast. When I'm ready for another relationship I want everyday to feel like "valentine's day," like everyone should. Anyway, I hope everyone is celebrating this American holiday as you please and will end it with a sigh of satisfaction instead of one of loneliness. I've had a relaxing day filled with cupcakes, mexican, and a bubble bath. I will finally end it with my favorite Sunday tv night shows. Pretty normal Sunday for me. Maybe one day I will change my mind when someone blows me away with my most exciting Valentine's yet, but I highly doubt it. It'll still probably always be just another day for me...

Besides all that, Nashville was AMAZING. I had the best time ever! I cannot believe how much a 2 day trip alone can be. Well, I traveled alone, but met up with a friend once I was there. I did have the whole first day to myself though. I got a cab to Broadway of course, my favorite street in Music City USA. I walked in some hole in the wall shops I had never been in before, checked out the new Dolly Parton memorabilia store, then sat at my favorite bar TOOTSIES from 12pm til about 6pm. Nashvegas is definitely the only place I'd walk into a bar alone. Made plenty of friends by the time I left. I had all my luggage so the singer on stage kept picking on me since everyone knew I was from out of town. Tootsie's is famous for the big wig's getting their start and of course, HOLLER & A SWOLLER! I danced, drank, and listened to the bands all day, didn't want to leave, but my friend picked me up after she was off work. We went to her apt and called it an early night.
The next day was AWESOME. We arrived at the studio for the music shoot and took tons of pictures. Every office you could see into had tons and tons of guitars and cd covers hanging all over the place. What I'd do to land a job at that place, or anywhere in the music business for that matter. We had a caterer on location. All the extras were dressed in black and we got to dance and sing to the song about 100 times! I was loving it, we were there all day. Eric Church was amazing. He was very down to earth and talked to us the whole time between takes. It's gonna be an awesome video, I hope you can actually see me in it!! I don't think I will ever be able to top something like that. One of my best days ever for sure. I wanna do it again!!! After that my friend Cherie took me to Music Row, the Opry House, and Opry Mills. Virginia just doesn't have the shopping like Nashville. Definitely more my style there!! They have boots for days....I fell in love. I was heart broken to come back. I still miss it. My friend Lauren and I have already talked about relocating there when we graduate! Yeehaw right...

Gone to NashVegas.

So I got the opportunity to be an extra in a music video and I had to take it!! Actually, one of my favorite country singer's video, Eric Church!! The video is also one of my favorite songs of his. I'm so excited. I found out yesterday I was selected and bought my plane ticket today. Flying right out of the Richmond, Va airport to the BNA. My parents are kind of iffy about the situation, but what are they to do? I am 22 and I am capable. It's my first time traveling alone, but I don't mind it. I love visiting Nashville. I'm staying with a friend I've known for awhile through some fan clubs. We've always had a lot in common, I don't feel nervous about staying with her at all. There are about 75 extras, we are supposed to be acting as if were standing in line for a concert, we're at the concert, and at a meet & greet for the concert. Well I'm off. Gotta catch that plane bright and early.

Swift favored in Super bowl

Beyonce killed it at the Grammys, just saying!!
Check her out :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trrU5mt5eRs

PS: You think Taylor Swift is going to the win the Super Bowl this Sunday, I mean she wins everything else...

Nice to meet you

So, we had a crazy snow storm yesterday, crazy for Virginia anyway. A bunch of my friends and I were all snowed in and had a big sleepover. They all drank and I watched, we played a few card games and country power hour. I never actually played with the real CD, and yeah I guess I still played even though I didn't drink. Some of them passed out early and the rest of us played Turrets all night long. Kristin and I slept by the fire and still froze most of the night. We woke up, I had my coffee, then we all went to Jersey Mike's. Now I'm at home starring at this mess of a room I'm debating on tackling. It's all clothes. I just have way too many plain and simple.

I realized I never actually introduced myself. That's what it seems like everyone does on here.

I'm Whitney. I am from a somewhat small town (granted we have more than one stop light, it's not that small). I am an almost 23 year old student at VCU studying to be a teacher or so I planned. I eventually wanted my Master's in Special Education, but I have a few other tricks up my sleeve before pursuing that. I am going to receive my Undergrad degree for Early Education on May 22nd and couldn't be more excited! I have plans to travel and maybe teach some ESL classes overseas with Lauren (She's graduating too). We will see where that all takes me. I would also love to teach at the elementary level for the inbetween. What else? Well I still reside in the home where I have lived for 19 years with my parents and my younger sister. While we live in the suburbs, it is only about a 15 minute commute to the downtown campus of VCU. My sister started Fall 09 so we are there together now. I have a wonderful family and great friends. I have led a very pleasant life and always count my blessings. I know I am a lucky girl and so grateful for everything I have or have yet to experience. Music is a huge passion of mine (I have secretly always wished to be a country singer). I love to travel. Summer is my favorite season, for the simple fact of loving the beach as well as, the river (where I have grown up over the summers). I am a reality TV junkie and I am looking forward to whatever life may bring my way (I am a gypsy at heart). I have always been told I am mature for my age which is crazy because I like to let loose more than most people. I am just trying to make it in the real world while reaching any goals I come up with along the way. I am not the best writer, but it is a form of therapy for me and blogging may become a habit of mine. I am surely learning that God's plan may not always be my own plan and that being single isn't the end of the world as I once thought years ago (hence my eagerness to exit my last relationship). And I love to smile and laugh. Having fun is essential in daily life (in order to keep sane!)

Here is my Twitter if you'd like to follow more of my thoughts
http://twitter.com/ittybittywhitty
XOXO
Whit

Gracefulness is Patience

Okay, just waking up from last night. It was so much fun. We went to a new country bar in downtown Richmond. Definitely time for one which is ironic because about a year ago Lauren and I talked about opening one and we thought it would be a total bust because everyone who would enjoy a place like that would not want to go out to pay for beer, especially not in downtown Shockoe bottom. Oh well though, now we have the Hat Factory.

To get to the case in point, I busted my butt. Literally. It's so funny, I love Miranda Lambert music so much and I get entirely way too excited when I hear her. Especially in a country bar that hadn't played her all night. Lauren and I were dancing most of the night and having a good time, then all of the sudden we hear Miranda! Not even after three beats of the song I immediately turned around, ran straight towards the dancing platform on the side of the dance floor to climb on, and bam. I was in such a rush to dance to that song, I underestimated the height of the platform and got my boot's heel caught up. Gracefully, I belly flopped onto my stomach with both arms stretched infront of me with everyone around to see the face plant. My reaction time was very quick if I do say so myself. As soon as I was down, I was up, as if the nose dive had not phased me at all. Lauren on the other hand stood at the bottom laughing for about another half a minute while I had already gotten up and continued to dance to Kerosene, one of our favorites. Let's be honest, I need to have a little more self-control when I hear Miranda and not freak out so much. Haha, how embarrassing...that was definitely a first and ps. I was sober! Hope you got a good laugh at my expense!
Have a good day, it's snowing like crazy here, I'm going to eat something warm and head out to play for a little bit with some friends. Atleast I'm trying to make the best out of the snow.

New to the band wagon

This is my first blog, obviously. I have recently kept up with a few bloggers when I found them on accident. So, I finally decided to start one and see where it goes. I'm not sure how often I'll write or if I'll even have anything exciting to say, but sometimes I just seem to have random thoughts that just might be noteworthy.

I am getting ready to go out for one of my good friend's birthday. She will be 24, that's crazy to me! I love Kristin and I have known her forever. We didn't become close until later in high school and then again after college. We actually didn't even like each other at first because of a boy she eventually became engaged to...then left! She now has a precious baby boy with her boyfriend of 2 years probably about to become engaged again! Biotch! Haha, just kidding. She gives me HOPE. Me on the other hand, well I'll have to save that story for another day. Let's just say I have recently just accepted I was not going to marry the boy that I thought I was. Thank the Lord! Love that boy...but he was just too much, and I'll admit it...so was I :) Well I completely got off topic. I will probably do that the majority of the time. I apologize ahead of time!

Anyways, I am very proud to say I just signed and turned in my undergraduate degree application for Virginia Commonwealth University yesterday!! I never thought that day would come. I will admit it is not the route I had planned on taken, but definitely figured out the right one for me right now. My best friend, Lauren and I, did it together, like everything else in college. Glad that is over with, cannot wait to start a new beginning. Lots of those comin in 2010, a few started already.

I've got to go jump in the shower, I don't like being late. Have a good weekend, and if you're on the east coast...please do not do the snow dance! I'm over the snow and ready for Spring!
XOXO
Whitney